Oh, I’m feelin’ it this mornin’, the morning after my weekly visit with Hawk. Five miles on the Swamp Rabbit, solving all the world’s problems before enjoying an after-walk cup of coffee at the Tree House. That’s just in case it’s been a problematic week and we need more time to solve those problems. Lately, they’ve all been problematic, and no one listens to us anyway…well, they listen to us at the Tree House and that’s one of the reasons we keep going. They think we are the bee’s knees.
Yeah, I’m feelin’ it as in feeling old, very old.
I do about twenty-five miles of walking during the week hoping to put distance between myself and the ominous figure caring the old-fashioned scythe. Despite my best efforts, the distance between us is shortening. As Hawk continues to tell me, “We ain’t gettin’ out of this alive.” No, but I’m going out kicking and screaming…just like he is. I want to be a burden on my child and grandchildren for a long time.
Hawkday Friday is the only day of the week I set an alarm and it throws my whole system out of whack. Aging creates creatures of habit, I guess. I am so out of sorts waiting for the Big Ben to go off. “Did I remember to wind it?” Am I the only guy who must get up two hours ahead of time to make sure all systems “are a go?” Friday mornings my “systems” always send out messages. “Okay, Houston, we’ve had a problem here.”
I take my wife a cup of coffee at five-thirty because she is as crazy as I am and invariably, she mutters, “I don’t know why in the “firetruck” y’all can’t walk at a decent hour.” I don’t know either except that it is easier to deal with my own disfunction than Hawk’s. “And besides, you went to high school with him and learned similar dysfunctions.” He wants to walk at six to keep away from the sun and just because. I want to walk at seven-thirty to get into the sun and just because. Opposites do attract.
So, I’m up at three-thirty and feeling like a dead man. I had trouble falling asleep. Late at one end of the day, early at the other makes for a grumbly old guy. I could blame Hawk’s goofiness but to be honest, it’s just as much mine. “How long before the alarm goes off?”
Who lays awake worrying about lying awake? I do, that’s who. When my bladder drives me out of bed in the middle of the night I worry about when the alarm is going off. “Don’t look at your watch, you’ll only worry about going back to sleep. Don’t look I said. You’re a dumbass, you looked. Jeez, I gotta get up in an hour.” I might as well get up now, all I’m going to do is worry about having to get up. Jeez, forty-five minutes, thirty minutes, etc. and finally I fall back to sleep…thirty seconds before the alarm goes off.
I feel as though I have been beaten. My aging body has become an alien thing…as alien as Ripley’s Alien Queen and just as nasty at times. An ever-changing sack of tiny aches and pains, a “thousand little paper cuts” kind of agony. Nothing major, just my sagging bag of bones letting me know what I did yesterday, maybe the day before, maybe the hit I took in a football game fifty years ago.
Once I jumped out of bed in anticipation of the day to come, now I ease-out, one toe at a time, hoping I don’t pull something before my feet hit the floor.
Sagging bag of bones…. Did you know besides your hair and nails, your nose and ears are the only body parts that continue to grow as you age? I don’t mean stretch as in sag…that’s kind of funny looking. It would be funnier if it was someone else. Damn you gravity.
I mean body parts that actually continue to increase in size. God must have a twisted sense of humor. If I live long enough, I’m gonna look like a caricature of Ross Perot…according to the mirror, I already do. A truly loving God would have given me hope in another area and a reason to get rid of my big ole four by four.
Every morning I wake up as the dark-headed, dark bearded young man of forty years ago. I walk into the bathroom and yell in my head, “Don’t look in the mirror. Don’t do it! Boo, you looked.” The vision in my head is a mirage, replaced by the image in the harsh light of the mirror. An old guy with a bigger nose and ears than last night, with less hair and more wrinkles turning into crevasses.
Still, as Hawk and I discussed, we are better off than a lot of our peers. We’re still mobile, hostile, agile…and delusional. Youth is a state of mind and we are still in diapers…or are heading back to diapers? We still have a childlike wonder about the world. We still wonder what we are going to do when we grow up.
I’m a gluten for punishment and out of habit I walk again this morning. I walk alone with my earbuds until I meet a pretty blond runner, her long ponytail bouncing, blue eyes twinkling. For a moment I remember being thirty. As I continue my walk, we pass each other three more times.
Finally, I ask, “How far are you going today?”
A big smile followed, “I’m doing eleven.”
I shook my head and returned her smile, “I remember those days, long runs on Saturdays.”
“How far are you walking?”
“Near five.” She smiled, gave me a thumbs up and shouted “Great job” before continuing on her way.
My heart melted a bit and I thought, “You know your knees feel pretty good. Maybe a little running next week. Maybe if I’m careful I can do a marathon by the time I grow up.” I don’t know, I’m sure a nap will cure those thoughts.
For the clarification of those who don’t live in the area:
The Swamp Rabbit Trail is a fitness trail that runs from above Travelers Rest, SC through Greenville, SC. It was named after and follows the route of a short spur railway once called The Swamp Rabbit.
The Tree House is the Tree House Cafe and Studio, which sits next to the Swamp Rabbit Trail in Travelers Rest. Great coffee, sandwiches, great service, and great company.
Don Miller writes on various subjects, non-fictional and fictional, and can be found at https://www.amazon.com/Don-Miller/e/B018IT38GM.
Lena Christenson, Don Miller’s feminine pen, has released a new book, Dark Tempest, a suspenseful romance with a hint of the erotic. Lena can found at https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B07B6BDD19
The image, Old Man Loves Smoking Cigars, is by Greg Cartmell and may be purchased at https://gregcartmell.com/product/old-man-loves-smoking-cigars/
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I have to get up two hours before I head out the door. I also have to do 10 minutes of stretching exercises before I even get out of bed to check all the moving parts and see how they are doing and keep some semblance of a range of motion. So I hear you!
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…and “Hawk”? Just who is that?
You’re not getting old…you’re getting well-seasoned! Keep up the good work!
Take life one day at at time…and find the joys in each day!
Like writing…your writing is always a joy to read! So I know it must be a joy in your life as you write!
Happy New Week!
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The same to you and thanks.
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